Breastfeeding Twins: My Honest Journey Through Pain, Perseverance, and Pride
I can hardly believe the twins will be turning one year old in just a few short weeks. Alongside celebrating their first birthday, we’re also hitting another big milestone: weaning from breastfeeding. After a wild ride, this mama (and her boobs!) are officially retiring.
My Breastfeeding Goals: From One Baby to Two
I’ve always been passionate about nursing my babies, with the personal goal of making it to at least one year with each of them. With my first, McKenzie, I surpassed that goal and nursed her until she was 14 months old — she actually weaned herself, which made the transition so smooth.
But when I found out I was expecting twins, I was overwhelmed with worry.
“How in the world am I supposed to breastfeed TWO babies at once?”
The Early Challenges: Donor Milk, Triple Feeding & Pain
From day one, this journey was unlike anything I’d experienced. Right after birth, both babies needed donor milk, so we started our feeding journey with a combination of nursing, bottle-feeding, and pumping — every single time they were hungry during our hospital stay. I was just two days postpartum, trying to pump while managing three little ones. It was chaos.
Tandem Nursing, Nipple Pain, and New Lingo
To tandem nurse (feeding both babies at the same time), I had to use a specialized twin breastfeeding pillow and quickly learn a whole new set of terms, like “tandem latch” and “football hold times two.”
But the biggest challenge? The nipple pain. I dealt with sore nipples when breastfeeding McKenzie, but this pain was on another level — anxiety-inducing and constant. I began to dread feeding sessions.
The Turning Point: Tongue Tie, Vasospasms & an IBCLC
At 6 weeks postpartum, after crying through feedings, pumping constantly for relief, and experiencing cracked, blistered nipples, we finally met with a lactation consultant.
That visit changed everything.
We discovered Brynley had a tongue tie, which was affecting her latch and milk intake.
She was only taking in 1.5 oz per feed, while her twin brother Deacon was getting 5 oz.
I was also diagnosed with nipple vasospasms — a condition that restricts blood flow to the nipple and causes burning pain between feedings.
Once Brynley’s tongue tie was revised and healed, I had to retrain her how to breastfeed. It was hard, but worth it. By 12 weeks postpartum, I was exclusively nursing both babies. We did it!
One at a Time vs. Tandem Nursing
While tandem nursing made me feel like a superhero (and sometimes a jungle gym), I preferred nursing one baby at a time. It allowed me to bond more individually, though it did require strategic planning — I often had to make sure the other baby was content or asleep. If not, panic mode set in. There’s nothing worse than one baby crying while you’re feeding the other…except when they both start crying.
Now that they’re older and on the move, nursing has turned into an all-out WWE wrestling match. If one sees the other nursing, they rush over, jealous and ready to climb aboard. It’s no longer peaceful — more like twin baby gymnastics on my chest!
Bittersweet Ending: Why I'm Ready to Wean
There are a lot of reasons why I’m ready to wean:
My son bites — and it hurts.
They’re becoming more interested in solid food.
I’m ready to have my body back.
We’ve hit our one-year milestone!
But there’s also a deep sadness. These are my last babies. And despite the challenges, nursing has been one of the most intimate, special experiences of my life — a way to nourish, comfort, and connect.
My Breastfeeding Twin Journey: Final Thoughts
I’m incredibly proud to say that despite every obstacle — pain, fear, and tears — I breastfed twins for a full year. That’s no small feat. I couldn’t have done it without the support system around me (shoutout to my husband and lactation consultant!) and my own stubborn determination.
If you're a twin mama wondering if breastfeeding is possible: Yes, it is. It's hard, messy, and beautiful. And you can do it.
This chapter is closing, and I’m filled with pride, exhaustion, and a little sadness. But mostly, I’m just grateful.
We did it.
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